what should i do if i think my parents are getting a divorce?
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my mom’s parents got a divorce and my uncle got a divorce i’m really scared but i stay strong because of my little brother! i love him and i try not to think about it. i wanna confront them but i am too scared i’d talk to my grandma but i’m kinda scared again i really don’t wanna go through the pain that my mom had to going to my grandpa’s then going back home with her mom thinking bout’ it scares me anyone have any advice?
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Answer by Trouble
Talk to your grandma mom about your feelings. If you mom wants to talk to you be there for her, other then that just be as good as you can not to add stress onto an already stressful situation.
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February 15th, 2011 at 8:15 am
Talk to your parents about how you feel. They need to hear your perspective because it will affect your life too.
February 15th, 2011 at 8:16 am
Nothing you can do. Its not your relationship.
February 15th, 2011 at 8:25 am
Unfortunately, even though you are scared and their love for each other dies, there is nothing you can do. Your parents have an intimate relationship with one another, not the same way with you. It doesn’t mean that they will both no longer be your parents. They can and should have separate relationships with you, and as time goes by, may have other relationships of their own. Again, this is nothing you should try to stop or control. It is about them, not you.
My parents got divorced when I was 13. Things got better after that because I saw that they were both happier. Plus, the time I spent with each of them was better quality.
February 15th, 2011 at 9:06 am
No matter what it will be fine. Even if your parents divorce, they will both still continue to love you. And they may be healthier happy people in the end, which will make them better parents. There is nothing you can do, this is about them. Divorce is not the end of the world.