01
Feb
Author: Divorce Dr // Category:
Divorce
Question by Jen: i need some advice my hubby wants a divorce but i dont helppppppppp?
Best answer:
Answer by cov_mids_uk
put on a bunny costume and wake him up with a bj. If he still wants a devorce then he’s not a real man and not worth hanging onto
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29
Jan
Author: Divorce Dr // Category:
Divorce
24
Jan
Author: Divorce Dr // Category:
Divorce
Question by rachel76: My husband told me yesterday he wants a divorce out of the blue, need advice?
I am in total shock. Did not see this coming
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Answer by clump y
he has a girlfriend.
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20
Jan
Author: Divorce Dr // Category:
Divorce
Question by sweetner: what advice would you give to a friend who is hiv+ with a husband who is hiv- and he wants to divorce her?
she has been married for 6yrs but not able to have children,the husband has 2 other wives,but after testing positive last year ,the husband wants to divorce her,the husband is negative ,she is jobless,and has lost any hope of getting one because she is sick, she says she still loves her husband , these other 2 wives are happy about her lossing out in this marriage , ,she says ,the husband used to love her so much though she has never cheated but now he has changed a lot ,in terms of ,sex, attention,affection e t c,but physically she looks healthy it seems she has lived with the virus for quite some time,what advice would you give her ,without minding the language please ?
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Answer by isabella
huh i dont get it….are they are polymist or something and if she is + im sure hell test + in the next couple of months along with the other two wives……so i dont see what kicking her out will do??
what city are u guys in
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17
Jan
Author: Divorce Dr // Category:
Divorce
Question by exhausted: Help, I need advice! My husband of 2 and a half years just told me he wants a divorce!?
We have lived together for about 5 years. We have no children and just recently bought a house in May of last year. He had been acting depressed and ignoring me for the last week, so I finally (gently) coaxed him into talking to me about it. He told me that he was not happy with our relationship anymore. He said I was too bitchy (for lack of a better word), and that there was not enough intimacy in our marriage. One of his concerns is that we don’t have fun and go out like we did when we first got together. I apparently “mother” him too much. We don’t fight very often, just the “silent treatment”. In my defense, he doesn’t help me around the house. No cleaning gets done unless I initiate it and he sees me getting irritated (which is more often than not anymore). He’s never been one to keep a clean house, so I just accepted that fact and hoped some day, he would realize I needed help. And, yes, we have discussed it like adults on several occasions. He says he understands that if he were a little more responsible in that area as well as others, I might have a better attitude. I understand fully that we both have things to work on to salvage this marriage. I am also more than willing to start today. He also says he wants to work on it as well. Within two days, though, it was pretty obvious that he was not willing. I asked him if he was entertaining the idea of divorce and he said yes. Before the conversation was over I could tell he wanted a divorce, but didn’t have the guts to just come right out and say it. I asked him if that was what he wanted and the answer again was yes. I don’t want a divorce and he knows that. We have discussed everything down to who gets what DVD, so I know he means it. I’m 29 and he’s 26 and I have to ask myself if he’s just too immature to realize that no marriage is a lifetime of honeymoons. I can be overbearing sometimes, but I have made vast efforts and improvements over the last year or so. (Our first year was rough). I cannot believe that this is completely my fault. I don’t think he realizes (though I’ve told him numerous times) that my idea of romance is him picking up the house every once in a while and getting the tag on his truck or getting the groceries, etc. without me having to ask or remind him a million times in a row with no success. I’m not as bad a nag as this sounds really, but a girl can only take so much before she gets resentful. Just doing SOMETHING would probably influence me to sleep with my husband more often. To make matters worse, I have reproductive issues that totally make my libido nonexistent. Does anyone have advice for me on how to save this marriage? At this point, I don’t even know if I want to anymore. He is my world, but I’m can’t be grown up enough for the both of us and be a lot of fun too.
Best answer:
Answer by emmy_nicole27
If you want to work on it and try to salvage it then I think you should go to a marriage counselor if you think that you don’t want to try then I think just go ahead with the divorce. I’m really sorry by the way.
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13
Jan
Author: Divorce Dr // Category:
Divorce
Question by il bacio 33: I don’t think my partner wants to divorce his exwife… Any advice?
I have been living with my partner for two and a half years, I love him very much and he loves me. My concern is that he still hasnt divorced his wife, he has started to make enquiries and has communicated his intentions to his exwife, however I feel that he doesnt want to hurt her, so this has resulted in him putting it off. I feel like we cannot start our lives together because of this. He has also said that he cant afford to get a divorce. I know he loves me but feel that he is still connected with his exwife and maybe is scared of the outcome. I am very understanding about all of this but just want to move on and not drag it out any longer. He has said that he will get a divorce this year. (I have waited two years)
He will not admit that he feels sorry for his Ex wife and I feel alot of jealousy, and resentment is startng to kick in. He is also paying for the mortgage at his exwifes home. we have no heating now! & in debt. HELP!
Best answer:
Answer by free_angel
“I can’t afford to get a divorce” is a line he’s feeding you. Why are you even buying into that crap?
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12
Jan
Author: Divorce Dr // Category:
Divorce
Question by Happily Married: Husband wants a divorce if I don’t continue counseling sessions. Don’t know what to do. Advice?
My husband and me have been having communication issues. No cheating or drug issues. So, I managed to set up an appointment for me and him to get some counseling. Well, I supported him through his immature stage of putting friends first before his wife. He knows better now. I didn’t threaten divorce. However, I am starting to feel I need a small break from counseling to reflect on somethings. His response was I will divorce you if you do. What is that??? I almost don’t want to go to counseling because now it’s no longer about my want to stop counseling for a little bit, it’s now about him threatening me. So, if I continue to go it’s almost telling him “hey, your threat won. I am so scared I will do what you say.” He could have just spoken to me about his belief in the counseling not “I’ll divorce you speech. I didin’t do that to him. Advice how to handle this?
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Answer by H.P. Lovecraft
Keep going to counseling and work on your marriage if thats what you want to have. Otherwise I would say your husband should divorce your ass.
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12
Jan
Author: Divorce Dr // Category:
Divorce
Question by Ryan: Wife wants a divorce but i don’t want to let her go!! Advice?
Im 30, together 7yrs was married for 4, and my wife filed for divorce last december, my wife is 26 & we have a 6yo daughter . When we met my wife had just moved to Liverpool,UK from NY and i feel in love with her the first time i seen her, was so happy when we started dating, the next year we were engaged & then married, we were really in love and i couldn’t keep my hands off her. Im away a lot for my job and she would always try be with me and i loved it. The third year of our marriage things went wrong, we kept fighting and would argue over the littlest stupidest things and i really hated it. She ended up staying home more and there was a lot of tension, heated moments between us, it got really bad as we would get pissed with one another even at a party with our friends, we both agreed that things were not right but she surprised me with filing for a divorce and said she was moving back to NY. She kept telling me how much she loved me and started crying and saying she didn’t want it to come to this but i was so angry i just ignored her, basically we were not communicating at all. I was too stubborn for couples counseling at the time and she said she had enough. I haven’t seen her since she left but i see my daughter every chance i get, Her best friend told me she still wears her ring and so do i she also told me she still loves me. My lawyer told me that the papers are soon to be signed and that she doesn’t want anything from me in the divorce settlement that she isn’t going to fight me for custody either. Im not ready to give her up, i’m no good when i’m without her, i miss how even when we would be fighting just seeing her and knowing shes my wife made my day seem a whole lot better and she always made me have a smile on my face, i miss everything about her. Im willing to do anything for us to be a family again but im terrified she will reject me. Im not ready to give up my wife, Any advice?
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Answer by Pix
man up and let her go
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11
Jan
Author: Divorce Dr // Category:
Divorce
Question by Ryan: Wife wants a divorce but i don’t want to let her go!! Advice?
Im 30, together 7yrs was married for 4, and my wife filed for divorce last december, my wife is 26 & we have a 6yo daughter . When we met my wife had just moved to Liverpool,UK from NY and i feel in love with her the first time i seen her, was so happy when we started dating, the next year we were engaged & then married, we were really in love and i couldn’t keep my hands off her. Im away a lot for my job and she would always try be with me and i loved it. The third year of our marriage things went wrong, we kept fighting and would argue over the littlest stupidest things and i really hated it. She ended up staying home more and there was a lot of tension, heated moments between us, it got really bad as we would get pissed with one another even at a party with our friends, we both agreed that things were not right but she surprised me with filing for a divorce and said she was moving back to NY. She kept telling me how much she loved me and started crying and saying she didn’t want it to come to this but i was so angry i just ignored her, basically we were not communicating at all. I was too stubborn for couples counseling at the time and she said she had enough. I haven’t seen her since she left but i see my daughter every chance i get, Her best friend told me she still wears her ring and so do i she also told me she still loves me. My lawyer told me that the papers are soon to be signed and that she doesn’t want anything from me in the divorce settlement that she isn’t going to fight me for custody either. Im not ready to give her up, i’m no good when i’m without her, i miss how even when we would be fighting just seeing her and knowing shes my wife made my day seem a whole lot better and she always made me have a smile on my face, i miss everything about her. Im willing to do anything for us to be a family again but im terrified she will reject me. Im not ready to give up my wife, Any advice?
Best answer:
Answer by x-tena7814
First you must realize that the FIRST FAILURE is not trying. As i was reading your story one simple thought came to mind. GO GET HER…I know its so cliche but its just as simple as that. Contrary to popular belief women are simple creatures. Her actions are SCREAMING i need you right now… and you were too busy to realize that. When people get married they must realize that you are no longer in a simple relationship where its easy to just “walk away” you have to make it work until you just cant anymore…and clearly there was not enough effort on your part. You must put yourself in her shoes.
I am a firm believer in actions speak louder than words, and you said a couple things that shows that she still has deep care and love for you. 1. she’s still wearing her ring 2. she said she didnt want it to come to that stage 3. she doesnt want anything from you out of the divorce. Seemingly you have a good woman on your hands and there is one thing you must realize….IF YOU DONT SEE YOUR WOMANS WORTH SOMEONE OUT THERE WILL.
You already know what you need to do.. get over the “fear” of being rejected because I can guarantee that living without her will be wayyyyyy more painful. Good luck
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10
Jan
Author: Divorce Dr // Category:
Divorce
Question Ryan : The wife wants a divorce, but I will not let go! Tips?
In 30 and 7 years for 4 was married, and my wife filed for divorce last December, my wife is 26 and we have a 6yo daughter. When we met my wife had settled in just in Liverpool, United Kingdom of NY and I feel in love with her the first time I saw she was so happy when we started from, the following year, we engaged and got married, we were really in love, and I had my hands off of it. In takes a lot for my job, and she would always try to me and I loved it. The third year of our marriage, things went wrong, we used to fight and argue the smaller of the stupid things and I detested. She ended up staying at home and there was a lot of tension, heated moments between us was really bad that we get angry each other, even at a party with our friends, we both agreed that things were not right, but she surprised me with the filing a divorce and said she backed away in New York. She told me how much she loved me and said, began to cry, she did not want him to come to this, but I was so angry, I just ignored it, basically we have to communicate at all. I was too stubborn to couples counseling at the time and she said she has had enough. I have not seen since she left, but I see my daughter whenever I can, her best friend told me that she always wears her ring and I also told them to me, she loves me still. My lawyer told me that newspapers will soon be signed, and it means nothing to me in the divorce agreement, they will not fight for custody of either. I’m not ready to give it up, I’m not good when I’m without her, I miss the opportunity, would have even if we fight only to see her and know shes my wife makes me really seem happy much better and it has I always put a smile on my face, I miss everything about her. Im ready to do something for us to be a family again, but fear they inspired me. ? I’m not ready to give up my wife, any suggestions Best Answer:
Reply from Odd
Say cela.Et then fight like hell, to get them back.
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