15
Feb
Author: Divorce Dr // Category:
Divorce
Question by CraziMommie76: Advice for a stay at home mom about to get a divorce with one car?
Haven’t worked in 3 years, we have one car, and I take care of our son during the day. Just wondering if anyone else has been in this situation and what they did?
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Answer by Greenberg
Go to school so you can support yourself.
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12
Feb
Author: Divorce Dr // Category:
Divorce
Question by leo31nierras: is it okay to to stay and live with husband while waiting for the final divorce for my husband?
I just want to know if its okay to live in the same house with husband while waiting for my divorce paper to be final. I’m filing a summary dissolution for divorce since we don’t have a kid or property. My husband is agree to it that i can leave with him while waiting for the divorce. What do you think about these idea. Please i need your advice about these situation. thank you for your respond.
Best answer:
Answer by Mike
sure it’s ok…as long as you don’t mind him with some hottie at 2AM downstairs
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01
Feb
Author: Divorce Dr // Category:
Divorce
Question by Pete F: For Christians: How do I know if I should stay married or get a divorce?
Is it a sin to divorce? My wife won’t talk about money problems or anything else for that matter. I know I’m not the perfect husband but I want her to communicate her feelings with me. Any advice and tips would be very helpful. Thank you.
Best answer:
Answer by Atom74, the sexiest SFCU
marriage counseling may be a good start, at least try and save your marriage, well i mean rationally
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30
Jan
Author: Divorce Dr // Category:
Divorce
question kb : The Christian in a position to divorce and stay in the Coptic Church ?
I have a friend who wants to divorce his wife, but he is afraid of the church is not possible? Do you have any advice for him Best Answer:
reply by Ivy
I thought it was only the Catholics, the Church’s permission to divorce is required.
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26
Jan
Author: Divorce Dr // Category:
Divorce
Question by JAZ: I’d like advice from people whose parents divorced when they were children. Should I divorce or stay?
I am unhappily married with 3 children, 6, 7 & 13 yrs old. I stay in the marriage because my kids need me, and I don’t want to see my wife get our kids after a divorce and then neglect them. My wife and I work full time, but I do most when it comes to our home & kids. I give our children attention and affection they need that my wife won’t. Our 13 year old is from a past relationship, so I don’t have a legal right to custody. I’ve taken care of her since she was 4, but her biological father wouldn’t let me adopt her. I don’t want to break up the children, so I stay in a miserable marriage.
Another reason I stay – my parents divorced when I was young. My mom moved and I didn’t see or talk to her for several yrs. My dad became an alchoholic and ignored me, so I raised myself, but with many emotional scars that still remain. I fear that my children will be hurt more by a divorce, like me, than if I stay. I don’t want them to lose either parent, so I stay for them. What do I do now?
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Answer by Liz Bow.
Yeah i would totally stay for the kids. IF you think that the kids need you then you should stay.
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16
Dec
Author: Divorce Dr // Category:
Divorce
Question by Recycled.Goat: Any advice for a couple of 5 years that argues a lot but has a commitment to stay together, to avoid divorce?
We are not married yet, I’m just wondering if there’s any divorced or married couples with some advice.
Best answer:
Answer by chicky
Get professional counseling. If you get married before you work things out, the marriage will fail. There is a reason you argue a lot. Maybe you two are not a good match.
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30
Nov
Author: Divorce Dr // Category:
Divorce
divorce tips for men – check the divorce and stay healthy !
When a relationship breaks down it is shocking for both parties, but try not to focus only on the negative. It’s sad, but we must move forward, it is not really the end of the world. This article gives you some tips to guide you through your divorce.
Tip 1
There is light at the end of the tunnel, just to get through this difficult time. You have to do to make your life easier by your daily tasks. Write the things and goals. When writing a checklist to give you a sense of accomplishment when you complete this goal. You’ll find that feels his head is not as organized and confused you can always deal with your daily routine.
Tip 2
Focus on the positives in your life, your family, close friends who can help. Pay attention to your appearance, take your time in the morning too beautiful dress will make the difference in the day and how others react. Take your time, enjoy what you do? Whether a walk on the beach, listening to the waves or go see a good movie that luxury. Just because your relationship failure thus far does not mean you are a failure and thus do not deserve the good things of life.
keep positive when life throws obstacles difficult for us, we become stronger people. Be realistic about what you really cope not all bad. We hope you and your ex is to become better people and can even get in the near future.
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20
Nov
Author: Divorce Dr // Category:
Divorce
Question by wwjdintd: Stay at home mom needs legal advice on divorce proceedings: Where do I begin?
I am a stay at home mom who has not worked outside the home since our three children were born. My marriage is on the rocks and my husband has become increasingly verbally abusive and is threatening me w/ finances as a way to control me. I feel divorce at this time is my only option. We are currently seperated and have sought no legal counsel up to this point. However, with everyday that goes by he is more controlling over finances and I don’t feel safe in the house we own together. He acts like he can barge in at any given time noon or night as he sees fit raising all kinds of hell! How do I go about moving my children and myself out of the house and to a place I could afford after the divorce since I have no means of income not controlled by him? He has a very sucesssful company but I am not involved with it in the least.
Best answer:
Answer by Liz
Don’t move out of the house. Simply have the locks changed. And get advice from a lawyer pronto. The reason why your husband is acting this way is he knows you’re entitled to a big chunk of money once the divorce comes through. Don’t let him intimidate you to the point where you’ll be out in the cold without a cent. It’s going to be tough, I know, but you have to be strong for your kids and fight for their rights along with your own.
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17
Nov
Author: Divorce Dr // Category:
Divorce
Question by bevc131: Need some advice…Divorce or stay?
I am miserable in my marriage. I feel like I am a built in babysitter, maid and play toy. My husband has custody of his 9 yr old daughter and I do everything with her. He rarely helps with her homework, housework, etc. He makes me feel guilty if I want to spend time with my family, they live 2 hours away and his is next door. Now I am having some health problems and he doesn’t seem one bit concerned. I still have my own home that I had before we met and can go back there, what would some of you do in the situtation? I just DO NOT feel like I am appreciated any. I am more concerned about his daughter than him, if we divorce, what will happen to her??Who will be there for her??
Her mother has visitation and I have talked to him. All he says is that he loves me. His daughter doesn’t have a very good relationship with her “mother”, I am just so scared for her. HE has had her since she was 3 when the “mother” left to be with another man. I just hate to disappoint everyone once again. But , I really don’t know how much more I can take…
Best answer:
Answer by nickipettis
i think you would be better off leaving – because it seems to me if it is like this now, how bad will it be in another 10 or 20 years?
But it might be more mature to talk this over with some kind of counselor or life planner or life coach before taking major actions.
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11
Nov
Author: Divorce Dr // Category:
Divorce
Question Kim : at-home mom needs advice divorce. I do not have to pay my money for a lawyer.?
I hope someone is a lawyer and TES ou can help me. I would like to know if I can come back with our son AMA. We live in California. Can someone tell me where I can find a lawyer for cheap / free? I have no money of my own since I left my job. RemercieJe I think I was just wondering if anyone knew a lawyer. My husband told me and my son out this weekend. I will just go home to be with his family. I do not want to take it to his son, he does not want us here. I just wanted to support my family without the stress Best Answer.
answer ? ? The woman
end Why did your work? Why do you want your son so far away from his father?
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