How to file for divorce – Divorce advice for women

Question by Paula P: I have not seen my husband since 2 months after we married in 1997. We have nothing together. I need a divorce?
I am told by his ex best friend that he has about 5 children with someone else… I have no Idea what state he is in or a clue in the world where he is at. I dont care where he is. I need to know if I am already divorced since its been 12 yrs or if I can get a one signature divorce. I dont remember anything about him but his name, and that he has family in Texas. THATS IT. I need advice.

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Answer by Bird Brain
Get a Lawyer. That would be my advice. They will sort everything out.

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Question by beautyforashes81: Men, need your advice: Does husband want divorce or not? Haven’t seen him in 1.5 yrs!?

i was mainly wanting to inquire about any divorce papers to be filed and where to send them. I didn’t even get to finish my entire message. Why did he sound like he was getting irritated and annoyed? And tells me to stop calling his phone but when I call again to finish my message he answers?

So if I am giving him what he wants…which may be what I want and finally see it’s for the best and tell him that, why is he getting defensive, being mean, and hostile?

I’m moving on in life in a very positive direction and am finally living and being the woman I know I was created to be. I’m also doing really well with BOTH our young children which he hasn’t seen in almost 2 years and hasn’t even given me a penny to help take care of.

He hasn’t file as of late.

Yes, we had problems like any other married couple, but he’s the one who made the choice to leave his family to be single again and basically free himself of what it takes to be responsible for a family.

There have been so many cruel things he has done not only to me, but while I was pregnant with both children.

Before I met him, I was so goal-oriented and made sure I did what I needed to do to get a job done. Then when we got married, it seemed like he never wanted me to do anything, he always wanted me in the house, etc…I’m sure a lot of you know how THAT goes.

Now, I have gone back to school and basically have the freedom that you need on a daily basis like drive myself somewhere and leave places when I’m ready to leave. BTW, he has had a history of domestic violence, but was never physically violent towards me.

He is 17 years my senior. I’m still in my mid 20s. Maybe the saying “things fall apart so better things can fall together” is true. I still have my whole life ahead of me and 2 beautiful kids to raise.

From a male’s perspective…what is going on and why is he acting that way?

He filed for divorce last Feb. but the case was dismissed. He didn’t even amend anything…just let it go.

And why hasn’t he filed for a divorce again if that’s what he really wants?

BTW, I’ve already filed child support last year, and he recently has been to court…no word yet regarding the outcome.

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Answer by None N
Good Luck Ma’am!

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beautyforashes81 question men need your advice: If this man wants a divorce or not? Have not seen you in 1.5 years?
I was particularly interested in the more must be about the divorce papers are filed and where to send them. I do not even have time to finish my message in its entirety. Why, it seems, he was irritable and angry? And said, I should not call his cell phone, but when I call again to get my message finished, he replied? So if I give him what he wants … can what I want and then see that for the best and say why it defensively to be mean and hostile? I go in life is a very positive direction and I ‘m finally live and the woman that I know I was had been created. I’m also really good with our small children, he has not seen for almost 2 years and not even a penny to help me take care not de.Il file from the fin.Oui we had problems like any other couple, but he is the one , who left his family to be single again and basically of what it takes to get rid of elected famille.Il responsible for so many cruel things he has done not only for me, but while I was pregnant two enfants . Avant I met him was, I was so focused on goals and ensure that I did, what do I have to had to do the job. Then when we got married, it seemed to me he wanted something he always wanted me .. in the house, etc. do I am sure many of you know how it passe.Maintenant, I returned to school and have essentially the freedom you need on a daily basis, as I leave to go somewhere, and if I’m ready to go. BTW, he had a history of violence in the family, but was never violent towards moi.Il 17 years older than me. I’m still in my mid 20′s. Perhaps the saying “Things Fall Apart so many things can fall together is better” is true. I still have my whole life ahead of me and two beautiful children élever.Du view of a male … that happened and why is he acting like this? He filed for divorce last February, but the case was dismissed. He did not even change anything … let aller.Et why has not the divorce again when what he really wants to wind up? BTW, I have already indicated their support for children in the last year and has recently been in court … . No word yet on the results Best Answer:
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is angry and hostile towards you, because if you get divorced, he will stop and pay a failure support, to raise your children. Currently, he is always in control of your life simply because of the fact that this document is not signed by the court. Get on with your life and file and get the closure you need to move forward.

beautyforashes81 question men need your advice: If this man wants a divorce or not? Have not seen you in 1.5 years?
It has 1.5 years now he wants a divorce or not? I have not spoken to my ex-husband for almost a year and I, we have not seen each other and did not want to see our son in the same time and never saw our daughter. I could not find his phone number (it’s already changed b / c he tried to get a divorce behind my back) I was to be, above all, the more filed for the divorce papers and where they are sent. I do not even have time to finish my message in its entirety. Why, it seems, he was irritable and angry? And said, I should not call his cell phone, but when I call again to get my message finished, he replied? So if I give him what he wants … can what I want and then see that for the best and say why it defensively to be mean and hostile? I go in life is a very positive direction and I ‘m finally live and the woman that I know I was had been created. I’m also really good with our small children, he has not seen for almost 2 years and not even a penny to help me take care not de.Il file from the fin.Oui we had problems like any other couple, but he is the one , who left his family to be single again and basically of what it takes to get rid of elected famille.Il responsible for so many cruel things he has done not only for me, but while I was pregnant two enfants . Avant I met him was, I was so focused on goals and ensure that I did, what do I have to had to do the job. Then when we got married, it seemed to me he wanted something he always wanted me .. in the house, etc. do I am sure many of you know how it passe.Maintenant, I returned to school and have essentially the freedom you need on a daily basis, as I leave to go somewhere, and if I’m ready to go. BTW, he had a history of violence in the family, but was never violent towards moi.Il 17 years older than me. I’m still in my mid 20′s. Perhaps the saying “Things Fall Apart so many things can fall together is better” is true. I still have my whole life ahead of me and two beautiful children élever.Du view of a male … that happened and why is he acting like this? He filed for divorce last February, but the case was dismissed. He did not even change anything … let it go easily. J. granted to change a total of 50 days and changes to the ground and he said he did not change. The judge rejetée.Et why he has not taken a divorce again when what he really wants? BTW, I have already indicated their support for children in the last year and has recently been in court … No word yet on the results. I do not want a divorce … but I am not satisfied with the filing of a maintenant.Alors soon he wants a divorce or not Best Answer:

reply by Rebecca S WOW
w / out my stroke and I have no children, your situation is so similar to mine. I have not seen for a year and a half, but we ran into each other at Pizza Hut. He said he would call me to get the rest of his business, but never did. He filed for divorce, but never asked me to sign papers. I do not know whether or not divorced belly. It’s funny. I progressed in all areas of my life, but the state of a relationship. I am happy to wait, now that individual, while I see what he does. I prayed for a miracle and I think it will happen, but if this is not the case, I know that God has a better plan! Be blessed.

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