Q&A: Need REAL advice on Step-son dealing with divorce…?

Author: Divorce Dr  //  Category: Divorce

Question by enhanna: Need REAL advice on Step-son dealing with divorce…?
My step-son has been through a lot in his young 7 years. He’s survived living in an orphanage for 20 months, being adopted, having his Mom leave 10 months later, re-marry a year later, have a baby, and have his dad re-marry (to me). His Mom is getting divorced again. I am in no way judging her (this is between her & her husband), but I know that my step-son cares for his step-dad very much. Stepson spends the summer with his Mom before coming home for school. He’s going through this now while with her and she’s already said he’s acting out. What is the best way to help him cope with the divorce and loss of a step-parent? I have no experience in this except for being the stepmom… do kids go through the same normal feelings even when it’s a stepparent?

DH and I want to do whatever we can to help stepson out as much as possible. He usuallly talks to me a lot and will open up with me more than anyone else. I want to do the right thing! Please help! Thank you.

Best answer:

Answer by Mr. Taco
You won’t find “REAL” help here. I highly recommend getting him into some counseling pronto. Sounds like he’s had a tough life, and counseling would be a big help. Take him to the family doctor and get a referral. You are a good step-mom to want to help. Good luck!

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Going through a divorce, need some real advice for me and my kids?

Author: Divorce Dr  //  Category: Divorce

Question by forbidden: Going through a divorce, need some real advice for me and my kids?
I was married too young (16) after 13 yrs of marriage and 2 kids, it’s over. Does anyone know of any good support groups for us? Or some ideas for us? My 8 yr old is so angry and his grades are slipping. I know these things can happen with a divorce, but I feel like I’ve ruined their lives. I want to help us all but don’t really know where to start. I tell my kids all the time I love them, I try all I know how. This is so new to me, I never imagined it would be like this.
I can’t afford counseling right now. My kids are going to a group center for it, but I want to do more.
I failed my marriage, I can’t fail my kids. Any advice is appreciated.
Thank you. I know i did fail. We both made mistakes. But hind sight is 20/20. I’m not looking for pity. Just advice for my kids and maybe for myself. What is sad is I can’t change the past. If I could I would in a heartbeat.
I just want my kids to be ok. I never wanted to hurt them and I know I have.

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Answer by countryguyhfc
Don’t take all the blame on yourself. Remeber there were 2 people in that marriage. As for kids, they all deal with it differently. You can go to a local church an get them some help there. They may have group counseling for kids with divorced parents (and for you too). The most important thing is to let them know that no matter what you love them. And that does not mean spoiling them!

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Q&A: Ok, I need divorce advice for real…..?

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Question by visualeap: Ok, I need divorce advice for real…..?
I’m in florida, spouse in TN, I need to file in FL, no kids, no assets, no nothing, but don’t know where she lives, will it still be easy to file this myself, or can a online website help, or??, also, what happens if i send off the serve order docs to the last known address, and she is not there….alot of question here, serious answers, thanks people!!

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Q&A: Where can I find free legal advice , or talk to a real person about divorce advice, need someone who knows law

Author: Divorce Dr  //  Category: Divorce

Question by GrimLotus: Where can I find free legal advice , or talk to a real person about divorce advice, need someone who knows law
My aunt was recently surved with divorce papers, but befor her husband informed her, he had a family member remove their kids from the home and took them to another city, this cant be legal, I need some advice to give her, legal, or course.
Located in Arizona.

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RI Divorce Law – The Intersection of Divorce and Real Estate Law – What Happens to Marital Domiciles?

Author: Divorce Dr  //  Category: Divorce

If husband and wife own real estate in Rhode Island and are getting divorced and have no minor children then there are many possible dispositions concerning the marital domicile.

The parties agree to sell the property

There may be negotiations during the Rhode Island (RI) Divorce by the RI divorce lawyers concerning one spouse buying out their husband or wife’s share in the property. The parties can agree to a single appraisal or hire their own appraisors. Some parties simply agree to the fair market value and do not need an appraisal. If husband and wife’s appraisals are different then they can negotiate the fair market value of the property. After determining the fair market value of the property, the parties should look at all mortgages owed and determine the equity of the property. The equity in the property is the difference between the fair market value and all liens and mortgages. This article only pertains to divorce and family law in Rhode Island (RI).

The equity in the property will determine what amount the person who is refinancing should pay the other party to buy out their equitable share. At the refinance closing, husband or wife may deed the property by quitclaim deed. Upon transfer of the deed, the spouse will receive their agreed upon share of the marital equity.

If the parties cannot reach an agreement and there are no children, the property will probably be ordered to be sold at the Rhode Island divorce trial.

In some cases, one spouse may agree to take less then half of the equity in the property. This could be done for numerous reasons including: disparity in earning capacity, admissions of an affair or infidelity, offsets from other assets etc.  Parties may also agree to a multitude of different scenarios which might include one party living in the marital domicile and refinancing in the future to buy out the other party’s share. This usually involves the party who remains in the house granting a mortgage to the other spouse.

There is really no limit to the types of agreements that parties can reach and it is possible that the parties could trade off assets in which one spouse receives a different asset such as a retirement account in exchange for the other party obtaining title to the real estate. Be careful becuase there may be federal tax implications to such tradeoffs!

This can get tricky because a transfer of the property without a current refinance will not take the person who deeded the property name off of the mortgage and promissory note. The person who deeded the property without refinance must make sure that the other party actually pays the mortgage, taxes and insurance on a timely basis otherwise their credit could be effected.

You should seek legal counsel from a Rhode Island (RI) divorce and family law Lawyer / Attorney concerning all of the possible scenarios.

Division of the marital domicile when parties have minor children.

If both parties agree that one spouse should reside in the marital domicile with the minor child / children they can agree to a deferred sale of the property. The person who is not living in the house with the children often receives a mortgage to secure the rights to receive money in the future.  

If the parties cannot resolve this issue the court will determine whether or not it is in the best interest of the minor children to defer the sale of the marital domicile. The court must look at whether or not the parent who is residing in the marital domicile can afford the mortgage, taxes, insurance and upkeep taking into account any child support, alimony or income that the person receives. The RI family Court must also determine how long the sale of the house should be deferred in the best interest of the children.

If the parties cannot determine issues of child custody, visitation and physical placement then the issues become a lot more confusing.

Rhode Island (RI) Legal Notice per Rules of Professional Responsibility:

The Rhode Island Supreme Court licenses all lawyers and attorneys in the general practice of law, but does not license or certify any lawyer/ attorney as an expert or specialist in any field of practice.

Where Can I Find Free Legal Advice , Or Talk To A Real Person About Divorce Advice, Need Someone Who Knows Law

Author: Divorce Dr  //  Category: Divorce

My aunt was recently surv divorce papers, but befor her husband said he had a family member take their children home and taken to another city, this can not be legal, I need some advice to give her , legal, or course.

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