How to file for divorce – Divorce advice for women

Question by QCCP: Filing for Divorce after taking others advice.?
I posted a question here and asked some friends at work about wife going to a bachelorette party. First stated that she should not go because they were going to have a male stripper. Wife said I was overreacting and many here agreed same with some of my friends said the same thing. So I apologized for overreacting and told her to go have a good time. Well she went on Saturday night and did not get home tell Sunday afternoon. When asked if had a good time she said yes but did not give any details. On Monday a common friend told me that my wife got very drunk and crazy at the party. Also that when the stripper was leaving wife left with him at around 1 am. My wife didn’t get home until around 2 pm Sunday. So asked wife about this and she broke down crying saying that she had done something stupid. When left that party she went back to the guys (strippers) place and had sex . She say sorry and wants to work things out but do not think I want to “work things out”. Told her this is the reason didn’t want her to go because when she gets drunk she does stupid things. Now feel like the saying “I told you so” but that does not get rid of the betrayl pain. Anyone have suggestions on how to handle this.

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Answer by Shannon
I think that if you are unwilling to work things out then divorce is the best course of action.

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Question by William T: Here is a question that has come up in conversations with others. Advice on staying together or divorce?
I have noticed in questions that are posted on what individuals should do when it comes to saving a marriage or divorcing that the individuals that are divorced tend to lean to divorce and those that are married tend to lean to marriage. Now I know that it depends on the situation, but I would like to know where most people draw the line when it comes to staying in a marriage and divorcing. If you had to make a decision whether to stay married or get divorced, let me know what your thought process was and how that effects the advice that you give to others “caught in the middle”. Best answer of course gets 10 pts.
OK I am getting emails from single people and I want to say that of course this question is open to anyone who has an opinion. And you know we all have opinions!!!!!

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Answer by leah2113
I’m married, and I think the only reason I would personally get divorced is if my husband had an affair. I believe that marriage is sacred and that now a days people get married and divorced too quickly. Marriage is a commitment for life and shouldn’t be taken lightly. Once you make a big decision you have to live with the consequences.

People give up too easily when things get hard. Every marriage has a rough patch sometime, you just have to work through it. Put in some effort before throwing in the towel. For some people divorce might be the best option but you should at least try to make it work pretty hard before giving up.

To me the only reason most couples should divorce is because of an affair or one person is being abusive or has an addiction they can’t overcome (and has tried to) that is destroying both lives. But try to see if you can solve the problem first.

That is my opinion. When I married my husband I meant every word of my vows.

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Question by ??*¨¨*I am loved¨¨*:•??.: Why is it that in Y!A ,people are very quick to advice others to file for divorce?

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Answer by ?Invisible Pink Unicorn?
I’ve never been quick to suggest a divorce unless its a last resort

However for me cheating is a deal breaker in my marriage and would be cause for ME to divorce -

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I realized in applications that are published in what people should do when it comes to saving a marriage or divorce that individuals who are divorced tend to lean toward divorce and marriage tend to lean to the wedding. Now I know it depends on the situation, but I wonder where most draw the line when it comes to being in a marriage and divorce. If you had to make a decision whether to stay married or divorce, let me know what your thought process and how it was that the effects of the advice they give to others “trapped in the middle.” Best answer, of course, gets 10 punti.OK receive emails from people who are alone and I mean, of course, this question is open to anyone with an opinion. And you know we all have opinions !!!!!

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