How to file for divorce – Divorce advice for women

Question by imraan: Please help me I need advice on moving on after a divorce and was married for 16 years?
I need help guys my wife has just been granted a divorce after 16 years of marriage .trouble started 3 years ago I blame her Mother she moved in with us even took over my space in the bedroom .WE have been granted joint custody of my 14 year old daughter .i am so bitter towards these two women my ex only did this for her mother .My ex also found herself a new boyfriend about 4 months ago I never knew about this I only found out in my daughters essay that she wrote .Things became hectic when the new boyfriend started using racial insults against my Daughter .Initially my daughter wanted to stay with me but decided rather to stay with her Mom which is fine .I guess i just cant move on now I am bitter hurt and feel deceived .Please help it will be appreciated Guys this is serious no jokers Please

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Answer by fizzgal1973
Hello,I am so sorry to hear about this. If your daughter wants to stay with you , this could be possiable. how old is she? if she is 12 in most states you can file for custody and the judge would listen to her needs. and as for this boyfriend your ex has does the mother know about the racial crap? taht is rediculious.
The problem is people don;t think about who they get with shouldn’t matter but it does if you have kids. I understand what your going through I have a son in Florida me and ex get along but he had a girlfriend and believe me I asked questions you have that right and to find out anything about that person who is haring that house with your daughter. I commend you for taking this step I would definitly get to the botoom of this. good luck to you:)

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Question by mommy2J: If you get married while stationed abroad, whose divorce laws do you go by?
If two people meet and get married while stationed overseas(army), whose divorce laws are used? I heard it was the home of records, but what if the two have different home of records, say Washington state and Tennessee? Since they get are getting a divorce while still overseas, and the wife must leave and go back to the states, who gets the kids? I’m asking this for a friend, any advice is appreciated.

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Answer by ekto s
Ask the Army, maybe they know??

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Question by j.griffith67: This is my 3rd marriage. He was my boss and married. Want a divorce but need to wait. Advice?

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Answer by No Name Girl
Need a little more information……………

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Question by Paula P: I have not seen my husband since 2 months after we married in 1997. We have nothing together. I need a divorce?
I am told by his ex best friend that he has about 5 children with someone else… I have no Idea what state he is in or a clue in the world where he is at. I dont care where he is. I need to know if I am already divorced since its been 12 yrs or if I can get a one signature divorce. I dont remember anything about him but his name, and that he has family in Texas. THATS IT. I need advice.

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Answer by Bird Brain
Get a Lawyer. That would be my advice. They will sort everything out.

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Question by SHRUTI K: i want legal advice for a male friend of mine who is married and seeking divorce.?
His wife blackmails him that she will commit sucide n will get him hanged or will register a police case that he abuses her mentally. Being male he also do not have any grounds over which he can have divorce apart from that he is mentally tortured. But indian court listens to female first. please help its urgent??
he is an indian citizen and has got married as per indian laws. it was a love marriage!

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Answer by Lela A
should make out police reports on her activities to protect himself and document everything that she does for the courts wihen the divorce happens in court

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Question by MoW39: Is it possible to file an uncontested divorce from the US if married in Alberta Canada to a Canadian resident?
I was married, but now want to get a divorce. My spouse is also fine with the uncontested divorce. Problem is, I am a U.S. resident living in Georgia and she is a Canadian resident living in Alberta. Can I file for divorce from here through the Canadian system or do I need to file in my current state of residency? Any advice would be great.

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Answer by Nehru
Yes,it is possile

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Question by ashlan m: I am seeking a divorce, do I need to file it through the same state we married through?
We’re from Florida, but we were married in Echols County, Georgia. Now, I am seeking to file for a divorce and I am wondering if I have to go back to Georgia to go through the process. Is there even a process? Or can I go down to the court house here in St. Augustine, Florida and file the papers. I’m trying to do this without a lawyer, we really have not acquired property/joint ownership of anything. I need some advice, thank you!

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Answer by BabeHart
.Typically you’d file in whatever state you current reside. It does not have to be the state you were married in. Do some research online or go to the courthouse and ask about filing yourselves. I know it can be done, I do not know how to go about it.

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lipid opera question : I’m getting married What do I do now, so I make the most money in divorce ?
I look forward to marry me a pretty good guy, but I sure would like to earn some reason when the divorce I have so much money as possible. Is there a certain type of clause that I can put in a contract or is there a rule that I should marry? Any advice would be great Best Answer.
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melouofs
Ugh. Ask him a marriage contract stating that you keep what is yours and get to get the best sound, if sign divorce. Watch him run.

Question by Pete F: For Christians: How do I know if I should stay married or get a divorce?
Is it a sin to divorce? My wife won’t talk about money problems or anything else for that matter. I know I’m not the perfect husband but I want her to communicate her feelings with me. Any advice and tips would be very helpful. Thank you.

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Answer by Atom74, the sexiest SFCU
marriage counseling may be a good start, at least try and save your marriage, well i mean rationally

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Question by Brnskngyurl: How does someone divorce their spouse, when they only married them for their papers?
A friend of mine came here some years ago and married someone so they can get their papers. Now my friend wants to divorce their spouse because they never intended to be with this person for an extended period of time. However the spouse does not want to divorce and is willing to cause trouble and problems for other people. (To add more to the mix, there is a question of if a certain child belongs to my friend.) How do I help? What advice do I offer without getting my friend deported, but allowing them to get the divorce they want??

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Answer by Adam B
This sounds fishy. When you marry a US citizen, you receive a conditional green card that’s good for two years. After two years, if the couple is still married, the condition is removed and the green card becomes permanent. As long as all of the relevant paperwork was filled out, there should be no problem filing for divorce, even if the other person doesn’t want one.

But your friend committed fraud on the US Government by coming here and marrying under false pretenses. He should absolutely be deported.

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