Question by eee: Would love your word of advice, especially ladies!?post divorce?
I’m newly separated, and yeah not completely over yet. I need a post divorce strategy that can really help me out of this bullock, this whole “i can’t see the future anymore” attitude. My plan is to get a complete make over, take up dancing like I always wanted to, get my tattoos finally cuz I design them anyways. Keep fit, better fitter than before, get back into making jeweleries and clothes again, my hobbies, pick up my marathon training, i was lazy for a while…….but what else can I do to keep myself fulfilled? What else will heal this black hole in my life? What else can I do so I wouldn’t feel empty and sad from time to time?
too bad i married way too young, mistake on my behalf
i have the time now cuz i quit my work and school for a while…….long vacation for me…need to find myself, not a man
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Answer by You ask, I answer you sound like you are trying to keep so busy that you don’t think about the divorce. make sure you are LEGALLY divorced before having another relationship, and try not to run from things. good luck.
Question by banana hamack: married but fell in love with a long time friend. divorce is against my religion. any advice?
Ive been married for 8 years. Times where tough from the start and I thought things would work out eventually. Years later I fell in love with a long time friend. He’s done more than my husband has EVER did and he’s been there through the toughest times. My family is very religious and divorce is not an option, but my love for “hillman” (I’ll give him a name) is very strong and I know that I will be happy and he will love me the way I love him. Ive hurt hillman (by accident) and he still hung in there. Husband really is a see-saw when it comes to loving me and if he wants to be with me. any advice? Please !!!
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Answer by Paul’s Next Wife Are you living your life for the sole purpose of making your family happy? Even if your family is very devout, you simply can’t live a lie for the rest of your life. Do you have any children with your husband? If not, then think about divorce.
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Question by Travis: Pregnant new wife doesn’t love me, wants divorce after baby, advice?
Wife and I used to make out for literally hours and cuddle (never had sex b4 we got married) for about 6 months before we got married and she seemed to have alot of reasons why she wanted to marry me, she used to tell me she loved me all the time. I got her pregnant on our honeymoon Feb. 6th 09, and she was so happy and we found out after about 5 weeks that she was allready pregnant. One day she came in to the room and it was like she tried to force herself to kiss me and I could tell she didn’t enjoy it the same as before, she stopped letting me cuddle her, she stopped telling me she loved me, she also went off of her Paxil (anxiety) for the baby. I was on Paxil as well. Pretty soon I was fighting for our marriage and she was thinking about divorce, I got us into marriage counseling and got her onto Zoloft, it helped but not enough. Her only reason for divroce is that she doesn’t love me and that I irritate her and I smell etc. I have been fighting this for months and she has allready asked me to leave and I did just that and have supported her in making sure she has enough food and gas etc. It seems to me that the only reason gives me for wanting divorce is just her not having proper feelings, other than that we have alot in common and we don’t argue much at all, I’ve never yelled at her. She really is set on divorce though…
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Answer by Jordann. aww im so sorry. i just want to hug you hahah.
by Mr Barker : Old friends and new love after a divorce, any suggestions? (More ifo below)?
Recently I met an old friend and have a budding relationship with her. None of us thought would happen not years, but a. My question is, how can I keep my luggage in my previous relationship of any ruin a new one? More specifically, in my first marriage I had no emotional support, so I was a “rock Tell me, my exwife I could never be there to support me emotionally. My new friend, but I still find it hard to break old habits, and it has already caused a misunderstanding between us. In particular, they wanted me in setting up a Christmas tree, which annoyed me raw feelings to do with my children say, so instead, I could have been avoided are included. Not to be mean, but because I was not at his expense, which have added to me. When I finally confessed, she understood, and I felt better. How do I get better at it? I’m really starting care for them. Perhaps therapy can help? I would not say that we “love” yet, but the interest is there and I do not care about them. I will take some time before jumping feet first into someone love new, and I think she feels the same, at least I hope so, I do not want him hurt, but at the same time, if they did not to see me, saying it would hurt but not for long, like “love” would Best Answer.
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by Amber R therapy … but you really need time and understanding … and what does it sound like youve she is ready to help. .. You just have to constantly remind you that this woman loves you and understands and wants her for you … open to him … You feel much better and your relationship becomes stronger and deeper. .. it is both of you happier!
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Question by agirlinlove: im dating someone who is going to get a divorce soon.I love her.I need advice.?
She is married to a bad man and about to get a divorce . I have been dating her for a pretty long time. I love her and we are planning to live are life together. I can’t stand having her go through what she goes through. How can i help her when she lives so far away? and how can i keep dealing with it. I”m not leaving her because there is nothing that can change my mind about it. This is the person i want to be with. I need advice. someone tell me.
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Answer by Fatim K man just tell her you love her….if she loves you everything will be fine…. like my sister haby… she likes this guy named nick… but he goes out with a girl named samantha…i think there is a love connection between nick and haby
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Question by jughead_103: any advice on ever having love after divorce. its been 7 yrs. i just dont seem to belong any where??
i dont still miss her. i just cant ever seem to get the one
i want or get myself to be willing to go there cause it for whatever reason makes me feel trapped or weak or uptight. i was married for 8 yrs and been divorced now for seven. any help or advice would be appreciated.
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Answer by dearmeohmy if you don’t feel like going out don’t push yourself, if you have a feeling of socializing go out it doesn’t mean you are looking for someone
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Question by Travis: Pregnant wife thinks she will never love me again, plans divorce, advice?
Wife and I used to make out for literally hours and cuddle (never had sex b4 we got married) for about 6 months before we got married and she seemed to have alot of reasons why she wanted to marry me, she used to tell me she loved me all the time. I got her pregnant on our honeymoon Feb. 6th 09, and she was so happy and we found out after about 5 weeks that she was allready pregnant. One day she came in to the room and it was like she tried to force herself to kiss me and I could tell she didn’t enjoy it the same as before, she stopped letting me cuddle her, she stopped telling me she loved me, she also went off of her Paxil (anxiety) for the baby. I was on Paxil as well. Pretty soon I was fighting for our marriage and she was thinking about divorce, I got us into marriage counseling and got her onto Zoloft, it helped but not enough. Her only reason for divroce is that she doesn’t love me and that I irritate her and I smell etc. I have been fighting this for months and she has allready asked me to leave and I did just that and have supported her in making sure she has enough food and gas etc. It seems to me that the only reason gives me for wanting divorce is just her not having proper feelings, other than that we have alot in common and we don’t argue much at all, I’ve never yelled at her. She really is set on divorce though…
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Answer by iar i am curious for the answer, i am going through a similar situation, was married and loved for 3 years and when the baby got here on the 3rd year, she hates me and wants me to die. still 8 months later. every wrong thing i did became one too many, like perfect timing for disaster. i love my family but its hurts to have it torn apart.
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aurelisenior question : I could always quickly engaged. What is your advice to keep love alive and to avoid divorce?
I would like to begin right … Best Answer:
answer ? ? Invisible Pink Unicorn open communication and never go to bed angry with each other
