Question by leo31nierras: is it okay to to stay and live with husband while waiting for the final divorce for my husband?
I just want to know if its okay to live in the same house with husband while waiting for my divorce paper to be final. I’m filing a summary dissolution for divorce since we don’t have a kid or property. My husband is agree to it that i can leave with him while waiting for the divorce. What do you think about these idea. Please i need your advice about these situation. thank you for your respond.
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Answer by Mike sure it’s ok…as long as you don’t mind him with some hottie at 2AM downstairs
Question by candelaria0926: I need advice on divorce, I live in dallas texas?
me and my husband have been together for about 6 years. We were married for about 4 of them years and we have a 4 yr old son. We had problems through our marriage where he has hit me 2 times the first 2 years but afterwards we were ok. I had filed legal status for him in the U.S. He was here illegaly and in 2007 he had came an legal resident. We were doing fine but I was missing something and kept telling him repeatedly that I wanted affection and love. He never took the time to do any of that. After 2007 everything started to change and he didnt want to do anything anymore. We worked and that was pretty much it. I eventually started paying to much attention to tv, computer or just working alot. He nevered complained about me working but he didnt the rest. I would tell him ok I am going to stop watching tv or on the computer or chatting. He was to busy with his friends to even try change anything. So I started chatting more, but I never hid anything. I would chat right infront of him and he would never say anything to me. I have a daughter from a previous marriage and I havent seen her in such a long time. I mentioned to him I wanted to see her. He took it all out of porportion and said I just wanted to go back to my ex. He had got drunk and that night hit me twice. Say he hit me the first time and waited about 3 hrs and he me again and wouldn’t let me leave the house. I didnt call the police because I didnt want the problems. I just wanted to leave. Now we are seperated for about 2 months now. I met someone after the seperation but nothing serious and now he wants to say I have been cheating through our whole marriage. I am so mad cuz I didnt not do that, but he said he is going to say that to get custody of my son. Please any help or advice would help.
Question by lkwdlady: Anyone live with spouse while planning divorce? Got any advice?
Both my husband and I want a divorce, We haven’t been happy for over a year and I’ve tried counseling, books, crying and after a week long separate vacations I told him I wanted to go ahead, but neither of us can afford to set up house somewhere else. It’s my parents house I inherited, but the payments will run me over $ 2,000 a month – I won’t have much left to eat with or pay my utilities. We have credit card debt so we agreed to stay in my house, him pay me rent (he doesn’t make as much as I do) and move into another room. Right now he is staying in the rv parked in the driveway – we’ll be selling that. Guess my question is: Has anyone else had to “live” (hard to call this living) with their soon to be ex. due to finances?. And if so please give me any advice. This is really hard. I know I don’t want to be his wife anymore, but it really hurts to know that he didn’t want to work at our marriage and is just now barely functioning.
I don’t “hate” him, but he let love die. He doesn’t do anything but go to work (which he lost his last job & this one was put on notice 2 months ago that his work wasn’t up to par) & comes home then sleeps. Sex has been non-existant for over a year, no romance or even companionship. I do care about him- we’ve known each other for over 10 yrs, but over this last year, I have gone to coupless counseling & by myself, I have cried & begged for his participation. He’d rather take a nap. I balance the checkbook, make all the decisions regarding how to pay the bills (I ask his help each wk), I’m the one who takes care of repairs to the house, of my own car and the pets, the meals & groc. shopping. I’ve been so alone in this relationship I can’t call it a marriage cuz I don’t feel I have a partner. Please understand that I have tried to make this marriage work, but it takes two. I’ve had enough & deserve to find some happiness even if it’s alone.
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Answer by A Canadian I have known of people in similar situations that simply renovated the existing house into two entirely separate suites and each moved into one of them. They found they did have to make sure they didn’t fall into the trap of watching each others comings and goings but if your split was mutual, then this probably wouldn’t be a problem after a while. Renovate in such a way that the two entrances are at opposite ends of the house and to afford maximum privacy.
Question by ninnet: I LIVE IN NJ FAMILY/DIVORCE ADVICE?
My husband had decided to divorce me. We own a home and he loves to verbal abuse me. We have two boys and he is always telling me that that is hi’s house cause he pays more than me and he always telling me that i need to leave the house. My question is do i leave the house would it affect me during divorce. He is also willing to give up his rights for my children. Does he still have to give me child support if he dont want to see kids.We have been married for 5 yrs.
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Answer by Anonymous Don’t do anything until this get’s into court. Don’t leave the house it’s half of both of yours. Most importantly, don’t bring the kids into this. I was brought into my parents’ fights when I was a kid and it affected me a lot. They didn’t choose any of this so you have to try to keep them separated from this whole mess.
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A friend of mine is married to an Iraqi woman to September 28, 2007 in Ankara, Turkey, and remained together for 10 days after the wedding. He returned to the United States and his wife returned to Iraq. They have no children together, and now has decided to file a divorce because the marriage is irretrievably broken. They have no property together. Are considered divorce in the Islamic world. But they need a divorce to be honored in the United States government. Both want to move forward.
