How to file for divorce – Divorce advice for women

Question by MNS: Does anyone know the steps needed in order to file a Bifurcation in a divorce case?
My initial divorce papers were filed about a year and a half ago. The final agreement was sent to my ex shortly thereafter. He signed them once and my lawyer led me to believe that they had been filed with the court. After three months of waiting, I finally called the court myself to learn that the papers had never been filed. When I asked my lawyer about this, he told me that he was missing paperwork and waiting for my ex to sign them. We have no property to split and I am not asking for alimony, I merely want to be divorced. Since neither my lawyer nor my ex is cooperating, I would like to file a Bifurcation to grant me my divorce. Any advice would be greatly appreciated. I do not want to have to file my taxes as “married” for another year. Not to mention the fact that we have been seperated for over two years and I would like to move on with my life!

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Answer by Borat_from_Kazakhstan_aka_Ted
Maybe you can file for contempt against your husband and file a grievance against your husband’s attorney for not filing the papers with the court.

Bifurcation means separating a case – which is not what you’re asking for:

http://www.legal-explanations.com/definitions/bifurcation.htm

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Question by Cricket: Need to know benefit of divorce vs. separation for stay-home mom. Any advice?
After nearly 14 years of marriage, my husband has left me. I am a stay-home mom (6+ years now) with no immediate career prospects (although I intended to return to work soon anyway). Ex seems to think we should remain separated so that I can maintain my standard of living (within reason), but others feel I should move on to divorce and just get a good settlement.

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Answer by want a princess baby
i guess it is kind of up to u…. if u think that the seperation will work for ur situation… then so it…. u have to be legally seperated for so long anyway before a divorce can go through…. if u r that worried about it…. make sure u get child support for all of the children and then ask for alimony when it is all said and done…… good luck to u…?

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question Cortney M : How do I make a divorce by default if I do not know my address joint ?
I’m trying to get a divorce, but my wife has as much as I do not know his adresse.nous both live in the same city moves, but she refuses me renseignements.Si you advice, I would.! really appreciated Thanks Best Answer:
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you need to get a lawyer. Advice here actually go to where you want to go. each state has different requirements noted divorce. Good luck.

Question by Pete F: For Christians: How do I know if I should stay married or get a divorce?
Is it a sin to divorce? My wife won’t talk about money problems or anything else for that matter. I know I’m not the perfect husband but I want her to communicate her feelings with me. Any advice and tips would be very helpful. Thank you.

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Answer by Atom74, the sexiest SFCU
marriage counseling may be a good start, at least try and save your marriage, well i mean rationally

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Question by karen: Does anyone know of any place that will help with free legal advice regarding divorces?
I live in Eastern Washington state.

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Answer by Jeannie M
Check with your local court or on the web for your county. They should have paper work that you can download or purchase that will let you do you own divorce with or without children

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Question by hi2008: I don’t know how much can I get after divorce.Please give me some advice,I will really appreciate that?
I’m 42yrs old woman who came from other country.I hve 2nd marriage & I hve 3children with previous marriage.2 of them’re above 18 and 1 is about 15.1st of all when I came to US alone,I met with my 2nd husband who also came from my country.That time he asked me to marry him because he love me and want to help my family.So we’re married and I brought my children here.But after 3yrs of our married and 1yr of my childern arrived here,He said “he dont want my children to live with us” and if I don’t agree with him he gonna divorce.My children is my life and they’re good to him .but he show his bad mind and I have only chance to divorce.But I don’t know what should I do .We hve a small bussiness with his name and we also bought a house together last yr but he controls most of our financial.So I like to know if we divorce what should I do with our estate and how can i deal with financial situtation?I can’t afford a lot of money for divorce because I don’t know how much can I get after that.pl
My children and I came here legeally with our own chance.so immigration status is no problem for me.I only worry about he bully me coz he controls everything.Thank for ur guys advice.its helpful and appreciate that.

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Answer by bubba
your doomed

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Question by moshimello: What important things need to know about getting a divorce?
My relative (female) is going through a divorce. She lives in California. She has no clue how to handle it as far as the procedures and things that she should look out for in terms of financial and getting the child support (2 small kids). Should she get a divorce lawyer? The main concern is she has no job and she worries not be able to afford to hire a lawyer. Please give some advice.

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Answer by u<3mecauseihateblacks
well the best thing she needs to know is the right “steps” they are listed as followed:

1 take a dump in his mouth when hes sleeping
2 key his car
3 hire a male prostitute so you can “get even”
4 dont just sign the divorce papers make him work for it
5 have a swell time

i hope this helps and i wish her the best of luck

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Question by true friend: Did you know you can make someone mad by asking for christian advice in the marriage/divorce section?
Wow! I apologize for doing so. I am a Christian and proud of the fact. I didn’t intend for my question to come across rude but I guess that it did. I just want to know the right thing to do based from the stand point of CHRIST. If it offended anyone, I apologize but you didn’t have to reply.

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Answer by skunk pie
I hope you get the help you need.

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Question by Happily Married: Husband wants a divorce if I don’t continue counseling sessions. Don’t know what to do. Advice?
My husband and me have been having communication issues. No cheating or drug issues. So, I managed to set up an appointment for me and him to get some counseling. Well, I supported him through his immature stage of putting friends first before his wife. He knows better now. I didn’t threaten divorce. However, I am starting to feel I need a small break from counseling to reflect on somethings. His response was I will divorce you if you do. What is that??? I almost don’t want to go to counseling because now it’s no longer about my want to stop counseling for a little bit, it’s now about him threatening me. So, if I continue to go it’s almost telling him “hey, your threat won. I am so scared I will do what you say.” He could have just spoken to me about his belief in the counseling not “I’ll divorce you speech. I didin’t do that to him. Advice how to handle this?

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Answer by H.P. Lovecraft
Keep going to counseling and work on your marriage if thats what you want to have. Otherwise I would say your husband should divorce your ass.

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Question by Dallas Texas: Need Some Advice, I Don’t know Where To Look (Divorce)?
But I Am Separated From My Husband and have been for A Year, I Would Like to Start the Whole Divorce Process And I Need Some help, Someone Was Telling Me The Other Day that you can Do it yourself For Free Just Get The Papers and Take Them to The Court House ((He and i Both Agree on Everything, There Are no Kids, We Had No Real Property Together Etc)) But I Have Looked Online and Can’t Find The Papers, and I Don’t know Who To Contact Locally to Get Them Any Advice???

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Answer by Hmmm Maybe
yes go online and buy the software and then you can file the paperwork yourself

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