How to file for divorce – Divorce advice for women

Question by Sparrowbird: Can anyone offer me some advice – Aftermath of a Virgo & Scorpio divorce?
My father, a Virgo Sun, wants me to meet his new girlfriend. He keeps pushing for it, and told me it would really make him happy if I made the effort to meet her. It is important at this time, might I add, that I remain on his good side.

My mother is a Scorpio with many other planets in Scorpio. She does not like it he has a new girlfriend despite the fact that she has no desire to be married to him. She would be very unhappy, jealous even, to hear that I was going to have dinner with him and this woman.

So basically.. WHAT DO I DO!? I don’t want my Scorpio mother to feel betrayed, and she feels betrayed so easily. I don’t want to go behind her back, because that makes me uncomfortable and chances are she’d probably find out anyway being the way she is. But I also don’t want to create hostilities to my father.

Personally, I couldn’t care less about his new girlfriend and whether or not I meet her, so this is really about them.

Any advice for me…? Can any clear-minded people here set me straight on whatever it is that is confusing me?

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Answer by TKO
I would encourage my Mom to find someone else, even if it’s only a friend to keep her mind away from your Father. I am dealing with the exact same thing. My Father is a Virgo and Mother is a Scorpio. She was deeply saddened by their divorce but yet my Father has moved on and is now dating another woman. He keeps her a secret though and he doesn’t tell us anything about her, but her age and her kid’s ages. My Mom just can’t seem to let it go, and she’s become depressed about it. I wouldn’t share certain info about your Father and his new g/f. She doesn’t need to hear it, even if she asks. Just be cordial to both parents…I’m sure it’s a little difficult and you feel torn between the two of them right now. Just be there when your Mom needs you and spend a little more time with her too. Meet the new g/f…nothing wrong with that either! Again I would encourage your Mom to move forward…there are brighter days ahead!

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Question by MNS: Does anyone know the steps needed in order to file a Bifurcation in a divorce case?
My initial divorce papers were filed about a year and a half ago. The final agreement was sent to my ex shortly thereafter. He signed them once and my lawyer led me to believe that they had been filed with the court. After three months of waiting, I finally called the court myself to learn that the papers had never been filed. When I asked my lawyer about this, he told me that he was missing paperwork and waiting for my ex to sign them. We have no property to split and I am not asking for alimony, I merely want to be divorced. Since neither my lawyer nor my ex is cooperating, I would like to file a Bifurcation to grant me my divorce. Any advice would be greatly appreciated. I do not want to have to file my taxes as “married” for another year. Not to mention the fact that we have been seperated for over two years and I would like to move on with my life!

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Answer by Borat_from_Kazakhstan_aka_Ted
Maybe you can file for contempt against your husband and file a grievance against your husband’s attorney for not filing the papers with the court.

Bifurcation means separating a case – which is not what you’re asking for:

http://www.legal-explanations.com/definitions/bifurcation.htm

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Question by Bruce Wayne: can anyone give me advice on how to cope with separation and divorce?
i know the usual ways like getting out, meeting people, staying active, etc but is there anything else? its pretty tough….

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Answer by gozedown
get out and do the “no pants dance” with someone !!!!

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Question by karen: Does anyone know of any place that will help with free legal advice regarding divorces?
I live in Eastern Washington state.

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Answer by Jeannie M
Check with your local court or on the web for your county. They should have paper work that you can download or purchase that will let you do you own divorce with or without children

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Question by Al Rozz: My divorce is under way any advice from anyone gone thru this?

It will be uncontested and she wants just a few of her things and thats it. Her parents are dead and left her with plenty.

If this goes well..great if it doesn’t this will be a long battle.

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Answer by . .
just start your own life over, no anger, no retribution, no arguements just accept it and get on with life, anger and hate only make you feel worse there is life after divorce, go out join a group of like minded people and start afresh it really works

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Question by kraze: What is the best piece of advice anyone gave you while going through an unwanted divorce to deal with the pain

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Answer by Free spirit
I am going through the raw deal myself –

I was told that i should expect emotions to change drastically on day to day (hour to hour sometimes) But not all days are the same. One day maybe very good, another really bad, some scary, some lonely, some angry, and some full of hope and ambition…

you are not alone

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question Tim : I am not attracted to my wife, and I am seriously considering divorce, has anyone any advice for me ?
I spoke with the woman and others, while I do not really cheated on my wife, I feel like I’m dangerously close to doing. I wonder if anyone was out there, or through what I’m going through. All the advice and experience will be greatly appreciated. Thanks beaucoup.Nous have been together for about a year now. We have no children, or should I say, we can not have a child. His body can not produce eggs, so if we do invetro, r children out the question. she works 30 hours per week to work on a seemingly anti-stress, while I was in the army while I work 24 / 7 I almost am. I try to spend as much time with her, as I can to rekindle the spark, but it seems that everything I do is in vain. I just can not seem to get it as much love as I did when we first married. since we got married, she gained 58 pounds, and made no effort to better stay in shape, no matter how much we talk about it. I still love my wife, but I just can not seem to be attracted to her more b Best Answer:

reply CAL
Tell your wife immediately! Tell him what bothers you. You must decide whether to stay with her or not, before something you regret it safe.

Question by ashley_naturenut: can anyone give me legal advice on a divorce matter ?
Can I counter-motion my ex husband from another state?

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Answer by Anthony F
A lawyer should be able to give you good advice.

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Question by Rachel: Should I get a divorce? Does anyone have advice?
Ok, so my husband and I got married in January of this past year. Since then he has had 3 or 4 huge blow ups, calling me names, leaving, cussing, etc. I’ve even found ads he’s put out about having sex with other people. He swears nothing ever happened and he did it cause he was bored. All of this while I’m going through cancer treatment. I’m not one to feel sorry for myself. I hate to give up on a marriage but it seems to me like it wasn’t something he wanted in the first place, anyway. He always comes back a week or two later apologizing and crying and saying I deserve better and he needs help. He’s went to classes but never finishes…Anyone, advice or comments? Thanks

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Answer by Backhoe
sounds like u would be better off without him. Good Luck and Take Care.

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Question by Christina6473: Need advice, anyone either has gone or is going through the divorce “emotional” process . . .?
Last year I had a great paying job but was very stressed. My husband lost his job 8 months before, so I was paying all the bills. Needless to say I was stressed and took alot out on my husband. He was addicted to a computer game instead of looking for a job and I did not have patience. I told him if he was unhappy then he needed to leave and find somewhere else to be happy. So he left. I then lost my job because I didn’t concentrate anymore. I almost lost my home, but I did find a job a month ago that does not pay as much so I work two jobs. My divorce was final 3 weeks ago. We have not spoken since he left last March. I have suffered from anxiety this whole year and I need to get in control of my life ASAP or I will lose what I have now. I had a panic attack at work last Saturday and can’t continue that otherwise I will lose the jobs I have now. Any advice!!

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Answer by Visualize Whirled Peas
Get therapy.

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