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Q & A observed here…Why does it seem that for most marital problems the advice is to get a divorce ?
Author: Divorce Dr // Category: DivorceThe same type of problems, but our grandparents and they survived tough marriage.
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August 17th, 2010 at 10:11 pm
We live in a world where people make instant coffee in the microwave, while shouting “Hurry!” The idea of commitment is not politically correct today. It ‘s always easier to cut and run than it would live up to promises. Society accepts this today, so the behavior is not only tolerated but encouraged. Our grandparents lived in a time when the commitment meant something.
August 17th, 2010 at 10:53 pm
Why do people in marriage should not feel obligated to be with someone you are not satisfied.
August 17th, 2010 at 10:56 pm
true. . . very true. . “Have made their beds” ecc.Onestamente think people today try to find the easiest way, instead of addressing the problems of a marriage. . that just came out. . . We all believe that it is easier but it is not. . . . is actually more difficult in the long term. .
August 17th, 2010 at 11:22 pm
The same reason we have more murders, rapes, suicides, etc. For now all go for the quick fix or easy way out, no one is willing to work for a good thing. Murder in place to deal with errors and problems. The violations because someone can not get away with it and are not willing to wait for the real thing. The suicide because the pain is themoment unbarable in the future, not throwing via.Siamo think they are lazy, selfish generation and eager to sad it is. : – [
August 18th, 2010 at 12:02 am
I have 51 years and a grandfather. Do not hold back! I spent three ex-husbands who beat me and my children! About all the traps! It definitely will not be a question and answer and say what has been abused to stay. I refuse to tell someone you’re being lied to stay! For me, those who remain have no life without dignity! We all deserve to have those things! ALL OF U.S.! I never said that nobody has had problems with drugs or alcohol to leave your spouse, there are plenty of tips are things you can try and get my grandparents did not have aiuto.I out hard and will not maintain a marriage. It makes people way toooooo many futrue unhappy if they do. Like many families, we see who are unhappy but stay together because the children? Can you see any of them smile? NO because they raise a generation of unhappy people? I hope that through a generation who does not cheat <<abuse or hatred.
August 18th, 2010 at 12:28 am
Before, when our grandparents were newlyweds, the idea of divorce was taboo. No self-respecting woman would dare to be divorced or was considered a whore “and women try to drive away their husbands for fear of them getting divorced a pest species. But then, many people also get divorced and faced with their unhappiness and believed that it was they made a choice and were going to stay the course, especially if children were involved. The wives do not pretend to see the deception, the husband drank. The same principles apply today but fortunately, women (and men) should not remain married for fear of having a reputation. Yes, the courts have made it easier to get a divorce because it once was. I wonder how many of our grandparents were so happy Tho. I mean really happy? And if you’re married to an offender or a drunk? As a happy marriage? Today, married people should not stay married and in most cases not even good for children to remain in a family where the parents do not love or someone is doing an injustice to others. No one benefits. If the situation seems sad, why not go? Why spend your life with someone only to discover when you take your last breath might have been able to change the situation? “Who wants to live with that regret (or die with him)? While I think there are relationship problems can be solved easily by both parties (and not the therapist) I think there are situations where being married is not an option and why is that person? Everyone deserves happiness… not just feel stuck and trapped. I do not know if you are married and if so, if you are happy. I myself am married # 2.’s first husband was a verbal and physical harassment, and they divorced. current husband is an alcoholic who has crossed the line last night and physically abused me. So I have to stay and paste this as my grandparents? Who knows . I believe that divorce should be adjusted to the individual.
August 18th, 2010 at 1:00 am
I noticed the same thing. um, for people who spend lots and lots of time on Yahoo Answers and the Internet, maybe this is not the way to foster good relations. Before the Internet, before cell phones, which had more privacy and not contact strangers responses whose only qualification is a good direction email.ma, attention seems to be the “quick fix”, sometimes you just have to do everything the “right or wrong” what a tough time without saving coniuge.anche casual physical intimacy “of our culture, where sex is common on the first date, and infidelity is available as a computer screen home and work affatto.divorzio not help does not solve anything, usually creates more problems than solutions. Abuse of this course is the exception.
August 18th, 2010 at 1:15 am
Good question, I asked that too! Even if the marriage can be difficult, I do not think that divorce is always a good solution. We have to work on it, takes off and really try. If you do not want the commitment of marriage, then why get married?
August 18th, 2010 at 2:13 am
Because it is easy to give up when you do not know what you want. Instead of talking about things, a lot of people to flee, or say things like that I never can understand, what is the meaning of life. Instead of what we can do to solve this problem. Correction of marital problems means that you have to look very closely in the mirror. What scares many people, in my experience. That’s where the work begins. I myself have had a hard time looking in the mirror. I really like what I saw, so I began to change for the better. Then I realized that my husband changing for the better, without a word from me. It ‘s like dealing with things in a positive way, spills off others.