my house burnt down on july 4th, and my parents are getting a divorce. advice please?
Author: Divorce Dr // Category: DivorceI am 14 years old, a freshman now, here is my storia.Il July 3, my brothers were playing in the backyard with fireworks, my older brother is 12 so my parents went to the light of fire “trick only and with my brothers. In the afternoon, we left to go to our beach house for a holiday of 4 am luglio.La weekend after my mother began to receive phone calls as of 7 am and did not know any of the numbers so she ignored her calls. Soon after, a good friend of my mother called and told to stay calm because our house was fiamme.Mia mother was crying hysterically and my 3 younger brothers, 6, 9 and 12, were in shock and so was I then got into the car to go home was a record of 2 hours. We came to our house and there are fire trucks and a lot of people, my best friends were there and I found them and began to mourn when I saw the firemen put out the last of the fires. We were told that the house was burned and everything was andato.I fire investigation and said that one of the fireworks lit my brother barkchip landed on a road and has been smoking all day and night. barkchips After burned, have enlightened our warehouse to yield the fire that spread to the house from now nostra.A, I moved to Portland and I will mark a new high school without my best friends. I do not get along with anybody, not even half as good as I had with my best friends: (My parents are going through a divorce right now and my mother Facebook has recently met a man who has lived in Ohio, then flew here to see this and they slept together. It’s fucked up.I my parents are doing go to counseling, but I hate it and do not help, I just remember all the past dont want pensare.Ora Im never happy I feel empty. Every day I wake up thinking I’m in my old house but had dreams im.E extremely deprimente.In of my dreams, chatting with my best friends and they said they had a surprise to me, so they put a blindfold on me and took me somewhere. They took the blindfold and around me were all my friends, relatives, neighbors and firefighters. One of my best friends said that “one little, but this is for you and your family. “I was standing outside my house, but it appeared that the fire has not happened yet. I walked up and opened the door to the right were our backpacks and shoes thrown into a confused pile on the floor. walked slowly down the stairs while looking at everything I had lost so much, all I felt at home was all around me. I went to my room and slowly opened the door. There were clothes on the floor and was in disorder, such as ID on the left. there was my makeup with my mirror, my poster on the wall and the pictures and memories of my best friends and I had done in the past years, which means everything to me. I ran and jumped on my bed dirty, and I sank into the pillows and began to mourn because he was so felice.Poi I woke up, and since I had this dream, It’s All I Ever think.’d give anything in the world to return to my room and jump in my letto.Non know what to do or what to think, someone has some advice or something to give me a hand?
Tags: Advice, burnt, Divorce, Down, Getting, House, july, Parents, Please
March 5th, 2010 at 9:35 pm
Hum. When the “burnt house” and “divorce” is in the same sentence, and, let me put it this way, you may want to delete this question.
March 5th, 2010 at 9:42 pm
Yes, go to therapy. That was a devastating event. We, the parents are still searching for their best interests, regardless of their drama. Had to go to therapy and so did my children when our house burned down. Ours is not burned at the bottom, but all rooms were burned and nothing was saved but the clothes we had on our backs. E ‘was lit by a person who was helping a battered relationship. Was Coo Coo. However, as you said. Thinking about what if it did not. You dream about it, dreaming of days there. I was ready to escape my life. But instead I went and advice. This has helped. I managed to speak to someone and sort out my feelings. So go and check. If the person gets to talk to you does not work for, then ask someone else. You have the right. In addition, you can talk about what is going threw the divorce of their parents.
March 5th, 2010 at 9:44 pm
I realllly doubt say something that will help = /, life can sometimes be a disaster, and can only be addressed by a day at a time. So I am still thinking about the past, only to be depressed. All you can really do is try to improve the situation. He was happy that he was not home because he was on fire. . a lot of people as a new beginning. You have a new school and new opportunities. . maybe you can try to look modo.Thats only thing I can say. I know how, but, believe me. When I was 14 my house burned down and constantly move from hole to hole fucking shit ever since. Finally passed by a house and payments were so high that we lost 4 days before Christmas. That is when we had to be away from home. . for what was basically homeless for a while. “So, I know everything about how life can be crazy. But ultimately, begin to settle and begin to adapt to everything
March 5th, 2010 at 10:00 pm
The same thing happened to me when I was a little young. It’s nothing like being at home who grew up in the room and the garden and stuff. But you should be grateful that you still have your family and none of you were in the house, sometimes we go through these things. Think of the people because of Hurricane Katrina? I’m sure I’ve heard a million times worse, bad things happen, but deep down we should thank God for blessing you put into something ugly. My parents also went through a divorce, it hurts not having his family together and see someone new, but will grow and then it is better to see them fight and argue all the time. As for the therapist, talk to your parents about it and hope you will understand. I know it’s hard, but try to make new friends and always have your old buddies. if your “real friends” you can write MySpace use each other and trying to spend time together on weekends or holidays. Hopefully we can get through this, and if you ever need to talk at any time you can only send an e-mail me. I’m always here. Good luck and you are in my prayers.
March 5th, 2010 at 10:24 pm
im so sorry: (thts rllly Saad. soo, I feel bad! and do not know wut rlly tell you, but I know you need friends. I know it sounds corny, but we need someone (who is not only a therapist) to inform all of this and have fun! PPL must be some ppl tht ur school are welcome! even if it takes as much as his old friends to visit you, or vice versa, must be in contact with some friends because theres no one like them! !! trying to do more activities you enjoy and not think too wut happened, but on the plus side and I rlly want the absolute best of luck! im srry this is all I can say, But Im rlly good at this cose.godersi kind of life and enjoy! … at least try?