What would be a good advice from the Christian point of veiw of someone who is not a Christian who plans to obtain a divorce for the wrong reasons? (Please, help!)
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What would be a good advice from the Christian point of veiw of someone who is not a Christian who plans to obtain a divorce for the wrong reasons? (Please, help!)
Tags: Advice, Answer, ASAP, divorceplease
August 27th, 2010 at 4:18 pm
Do not attempt to solve individual counseling Marriage counseling divorce must always be a last resort. Never before you can get through anything if you try
August 27th, 2010 at 4:28 pm
If not, I would be careful about what people say because it is not the problem. If they do not agree more, why did they divorce? That’s why we have programs like Forensic Files. Whose to say divorce is on the floor anyway right? If this is a friend, you must be more of a listener trying to talk to someone about something. They came to you because you trust the information. It’s not their job to support their marriage. Just because you think it is for the wrong reasons. There may be things behind closed doors that nobody sees or talks. My best advice would be your opinion * I can leave God out of it, if not * Christian, but being a friend, not a preacher.
August 27th, 2010 at 5:24 pm
You should know the reason for giving advice really bene.Il My suggestion would be: 1. Do not quote the Bible. This is just close their ears and will not help. Instead speak from the heart and try to avoid phrases that specifically points to cristianesimo.2. Listen to what they are saying, and listen good. Find something that can identify and relate to it. For example, if the changes were divorced because of money, be sure to think of their own money problems. They need to know that you understand, not just trying to force its agenda on them. Let them know you’re his parte.3. Tune them in the station WII-FM – What’s in it for me (thanks Bob Pike) – besides the fact that she does not believe in divorce, what is the reason why they should be together. What qualifies a friend to stay with the person I am con.4. Be honest and sincere. If you are a friend, you need to know is your friend, no matter what the final result is.Ricordate not their job to stop the divorce. As a friend, you must do your best to open their eyes to the possibilities rather than the pain of his existence.
August 27th, 2010 at 6:00 pm
Hunny, can be bad for you but not them. You can not prevent others from divorce.
August 27th, 2010 at 6:53 pm
If the council does not work, divide the shit and move on.